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The Secret to Getting Ahead of 99% of People
It’s Simpler Than You Think

Let’s face it: most people stay stuck. They have big dreams but never take real action. They procrastinate, make excuses, and wait for the “perfect time.” But here’s the truth: if you want to get ahead of 99% of people, you don’t have to be a genius, and you don’t need a perfect plan. You just need to do what most people won’t—start.
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Welcome to another issue of Better Self—let’s take another step toward growth!
Most people live their lives in “someday” mode. “Someday I’ll start my business.” “Someday I’ll get in shape.” “Someday I’ll chase my dreams.”
But someday doesn’t exist. The people who succeed—the top 1%—don’t wait. They take action, even when it’s messy, even when they’re scared. If you’re ready to stop dreaming and start doing, here’s how to leap ahead of the crowd.
1. Start Before You Feel Ready
The biggest difference between successful people and everyone else? They don’t wait until they feel ready. They know that confidence comes from action, not the other way around.
Waiting for the perfect moment is just fear disguised as procrastination. If you start now, even with tiny steps, you’ll build momentum—and that momentum will carry you forward.
Pro Tip: Write down one thing you’ve been putting off. Now, take the first small step toward it today. Don’t overthink it; just start.
2. Focus on Progress, Not Perfection
Too many people get stuck because they want everything to be perfect. But perfection is a trap—it keeps you from making progress. The truth is, the top 1% aren’t perfect; they’re consistent.
It’s better to take messy action and learn along the way than to wait for everything to be flawless. Each step forward, no matter how small, gets you closer to your goals.
Pro Tip: Set a timer for 15 minutes and work on your goal. Even if it’s not perfect, the progress you make will push you forward.
3. Do the Hard Stuff First
Most people avoid the hard tasks—the ones that require focus, discipline, or stepping out of their comfort zone. But here’s the thing: the hard stuff is where the magic happens. It’s where real growth and success come from.
Whether it’s having a tough conversation, learning a new skill, or tackling a big project, doing the hard stuff first sets you apart from the rest.
Pro Tip: Start your day with your hardest task. Once it’s done, everything else feels easier.
4. Stay Consistent
Success doesn’t come from doing something once. It comes from showing up every day, even when it’s hard, even when you don’t feel like it. Consistency builds habits, and habits build results.
The key is to commit to small, manageable actions you can stick with over time. You don’t have to be perfect—you just have to keep going.
Pro Tip: Set a daily “non-negotiable.” It could be as simple as writing one paragraph, doing 10 push-ups, or reading for 5 minutes. Whatever it is, commit to it every day.
5. Learn from Every Setback
The people who succeed aren’t the ones who never fail—they’re the ones who don’t let failure stop them. Every setback is a lesson, a chance to learn and improve.
Instead of fearing mistakes, embrace them. Each one brings you closer to success, as long as you don’t quit.
Pro Tip: After any setback, ask yourself: “What can I learn from this?” Write it down and use it to move forward stronger.

ACTIONABLE NEXT STEPS:
1. Take Immediate Action: Pick one goal and take a small step toward it today.
2. Prioritize the Hard Task: Start your day by tackling the most challenging thing on your list.
3. Commit to Consistency: Set a daily habit and stick to it for the next 30 days.
TAKEAWAYS:
Here’s how to get ahead of 99% of people:
• Stop waiting for the perfect moment—just start.
• Focus on progress, not perfection.
• Tackle the hard tasks and stay consistent.
• Embrace setbacks as learning opportunities.
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