Stop Waiting for Someday

Ever catch yourself saying, “I’ll do it someday”? Maybe it’s chasing a dream, spending more time with loved ones, or finally taking care of yourself. But here’s the truth: “someday” is just an excuse. It’s a way to avoid the fear of starting. The problem? Someday never comes.

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Welcome to another issue of Better Self—let’s take another step toward growth!

Here’s a hard truth: life doesn’t wait for you to feel ready. Time keeps moving, whether you’re using it or not. The dreams you keep pushing off? The people you want to spend time with? The goals you’re too scared to chase? They’re waiting on you—but they won’t wait forever.

The most successful, happiest people aren’t the ones with perfect plans or unlimited resources. They’re the ones who stop waiting for the “right time” and take action anyway.

Here’s how to break free from the “someday” trap and start living now.

1. Realize “Someday” Is a Lie

We all tell ourselves that we’ll get to it “when the time is right.” But let’s be honest: what are we really waiting for? More money? More time? More confidence? None of those things magically appear.

The truth? The right time will never come. Waiting for someday is just fear in disguise. Once you accept that, you can stop waiting and start doing.

Pro Tip: Write down one thing you’ve been putting off. Now, instead of waiting for the perfect time, schedule it this week—even if you feel unprepared.

2. Focus on Small Wins

Big goals can feel overwhelming. That’s why so many people never start—they don’t know where to begin. But here’s the secret: you don’t have to figure it all out right now. You just need to take one small step.

Whether it’s signing up for that class, making a phone call, or spending five minutes on a project, every small win builds momentum. And momentum creates progress.

Pro Tip: Ask yourself, “What’s the smallest step I can take toward my goal today?” Then do it.

3. Stop Being Afraid to Fail

Let’s face it: failure sucks. But you know what’s worse? Regret. The truth is, failing doesn’t mean you’re not good enough—it means you’re trying. And trying is how you grow.

Every mistake teaches you something. Every attempt gets you closer. But if you let the fear of failing stop you, you’ll stay exactly where you are.

ACTIONABLE NEXT STEPS:

• Pick One “Someday” Goal: Write down one thing you’ve been waiting to do. Now break it into the smallest step possible and do it today.

• Set a Time Limit: Give yourself 10 minutes to work on something you’ve been avoiding. Don’t overthink it—just start.

• Celebrate Progress, Not Perfection: At the end of the day, reflect on one thing you did, no matter how small, to move forward.

TAKEAWAYS:

“Someday” is just another word for never. Here’s how to take action today:

• Stop waiting for the perfect time—it doesn’t exist.

• Start small. Small steps lead to big progress.

• Don’t fear failure. Fear regret instead.

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