Are You Alive or Just Existing?

One of the clearest signs you’re truly living is waking up excited for what the day holds. If you wake up dreading what’s ahead, then maybe it’s time to take a closer look at what’s holding you back.

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Let’s get real for a second—are you actually living your life, or are you just going through the motions day after day? It’s a question worth asking.

So many people wake up, go to work, come home, and repeat the same routine, barely stopping to think if they’re really happy or fulfilled.

Life wasn’t meant to be lived on autopilot. But breaking free from the cycle takes more than just wanting it—it takes action. Here’s how to tell if you’re truly living, and what to do if you realize you’re just existing.

1. Do You Feel Excited About Your Day?

One of the clearest signs you’re truly living is waking up excited for what the day holds. If you wake up dreading what’s ahead, then maybe it’s time to take a closer look at what’s holding you back.

Think about it: What makes you feel alive? What are the moments when you lose track of time because you're so engaged and happy?

If your days are filled with tasks you do on autopilot, you’re probably just existing.

2. Are You Taking Risks, or Just Playing It Safe?

Living isn’t about avoiding risks—it’s about embracing them. Taking risks doesn’t always mean doing something dangerous; it means stepping out of your comfort zone and challenging yourself.

When was the last time you did something that made your heart race? Something that pushed you to grow?

Playing it safe might feel comfortable, but it doesn’t lead to growth. Real living happens when you push past what you already know.

3. Are You Following Your Passion or Someone Else's Plan?

Another sign of just existing is living according to someone else’s expectations. Whether it’s parents, society, or friends, many of us fall into the trap of doing what we think we should do, instead of what we want to do.

It’s easy to go along with the plan laid out for us, but at some point, you have to ask: Whose life am I really living?

ACTIONABLE NEXT STEPS:

If you feel like you’re just going through the motions, it’s time to make a change. Here’s where to start:

1. Reflect on Your Routine: What parts of your day are you just “getting through”? Identify where you’re feeling stuck.

2. Take a Small Risk: Pick one thing that scares you a little but excites you a lot. Whether it’s learning something new, meeting new people, or trying something different, take that step.

3. Check in With Yourself: Ask yourself if the path you're on is really your path. If it’s not, figure out what would make you feel more alive, and start moving toward it.

TAKEAWAYS:

There’s a big difference between existing and truly living. Here are the signs to look out for:

1. You’re just getting through your day without excitement.

2. You’re playing it safe and not challenging yourself.

3. You’re following someone else’s plan instead of your own.

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