3 Ways to Figure Out What to Do With Your Life

Ever feel lost, like you’re wandering through life without a map? You’re not alone. Figuring out what to do with your life is one of the toughest questions we all face. The good news? You don’t need all the answers right now. You just need a place to start.

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Welcome to another issue of Better Self—let’s take another step toward growth!

Finding your purpose isn’t about having a perfect plan. It’s about exploring, learning, and trying things until the pieces start to fit. Today, we’re sharing three simple strategies to help you find your path.

It won’t happen overnight, but with a little effort, you’ll start to see the way forward.

1. Look at Your Role Models

If you’re unsure what to do with your life, start by thinking about the people you admire. Role models can show us what’s possible. They’ve been where you are, faced challenges, and found their way.

Pick someone you look up to and dive into their story. What struggles did they overcome? What decisions helped them succeed? You’ll be surprised at how much you can learn from their journey.

Pro Tip: Look for interviews, blogs, or social media posts where they share their experiences. You don’t have to copy their path, but their stories can give you ideas and inspiration for your own.

2. Find Your Ikigai

Ikigai is a Japanese concept that means “reason for being.” It’s where your passions, skills, and opportunities meet. To find your Ikigai, ask yourself these four questions:

• What do you love? What are the things you’re passionate about?

• What are you good at? What skills or talents come naturally to you?

• What can you be paid for? What careers or opportunities align with your abilities?

• What does the world need? How can you make a positive impact?

Write down your answers and look for the overlap. This sweet spot can guide you toward a purpose that brings both fulfillment and practicality.

Pro Tip: Don’t rush this process. Revisit these questions as you grow and learn more about yourself.

3. Start Trying Things

The fastest way to figure out what you want is to start doing. Dive into new experiences, projects, and hobbies. Each one will teach you something valuable—even if it’s what you don’t want.

The more you explore, the clearer your path will become. Don’t be afraid to make mistakes or fail. That’s where the learning happens.

Pro Tip: Step outside your comfort zone this week. Try something you’ve always been curious about, even if it feels scary.

ACTIONABLE NEXT STEPS:

• Study Role Models: Pick one person you admire and learn about their journey.

• Reflect on Ikigai: Answer the four questions and look for where they overlap.

• Experiment Boldly: Start a new project, hobby, or experience this week.

TAKEAWAYS:

You don’t need all the answers right now. Here’s how to find your way:

• Learn from people who’ve been where you want to go.

• Reflect on what you love, what you’re good at, and what the world needs.

• Start exploring—your purpose will reveal itself as you go.

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See you on Monday ;)

Your Better Self